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I am supposed to play this at our Son's wedding reception in a couple months. It would be great to be able to add vibrato but that seems unrealistic. What do you think needs the most work?
FYI it is a very small, low key immediate family wedding so not that big a deal. If I really need a lot of improvement... I'll just start serving the wine and beer earlier
Also, I have already auditioned for our son and his fiance and they liked it as-is but I want to make it as pretty as possible.
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Hi Joe,
I'd say you've pretty much got the song at a good level already--got it memorized, excellent intonation, even rhythm, etc. If you keep playing it multiple times every day until the wedding, you'll have it perfect by then and maybe can even play it a little faster (which at least I would prefer to hear it at). Good start and good job!

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Is that SNOW outside??? ~~~~~??
I would do as others have said. Play it, Play it, Play it, and Play it, ~~~~~
That can be a bit CRAZY but it will pay off. Each time you will get more intonation, etc and just might find a little vibrato coming out.
When you can not play it anymore but yet have some play left in ya >>>>> RUN the SCALE that is associated with the song. Run the notes in the associated key and modes. Then play the song again and again and then RUN the SCALES within the key.
Again and Again and Again
YOU WILL ROCK!!!!!

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Kind of an interesting choice for a wedding. A very pretty song, but a very sad one as well.
The only thing I heard that I think maybe needs work is your fluency. It sounds like you just haven't played the song enough times yet to be fully comfortable with it. Play it a couple times a day, and you'll have that licked easy enough in less than a couple of months.
I think you have it at a good tempo for what you are doing on it right now. If you plan on working in some ornamentation/embellishment like trills or chords in some spots to add interest, it might work better a little slower.
But I think you have it sounding very good, for a couple of months before the event. I think you'll do good at the wedding.
"This young wine may have a lot of tannins now, but in 5 or 10 years it is going to be spectacular, despite the fact that right now it tastes like crude oil. You know this is how it is supposed to taste at this stage of development." ~ Itzhak Perlman

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DanielB said
Kind of an interesting choice for a wedding. A very pretty song, but a very sad one as well.The only thing I heard that I think maybe needs work is your fluency. It sounds like you just haven't played the song enough times yet to be fully comfortable with it. Play it a couple times a day, and you'll have that licked easy enough in less than a couple of months.
I think you have it at a good tempo for what you are doing on it right now. If you plan on working in some ornamentation/embellishment like trills or chords in some spots to add interest, it might work better a little slower.
But I think you have it sounding very good, for a couple of months before the event. I think you'll do good at the wedding.
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The Retaw Boyce youtube video was what first really got me motivated to learn to play. When I shared the audio with my son, he put it on a continuous loop and played it for hours. He and his fiance love the song. I offered to play others but they want this one.

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By "interesting", all I meant was that it is not one of the usual wedding cliches. It is a beautiful song.
I first heard it a few decades ago, on Neil Hellman's "Oktober County" album, but the Retaw Boyce version is my current favorite as well. Retaw Boyce's version is what got me started experimenting with chords on violin.
For the actual wedding, are you planning on doing the piece unaccompanied, or against Boyce's backing tracks? Those are some pretty nice backing tracks, and I could definitely see them as something to help make a very nice moment for a special day.
"This young wine may have a lot of tannins now, but in 5 or 10 years it is going to be spectacular, despite the fact that right now it tastes like crude oil. You know this is how it is supposed to taste at this stage of development." ~ Itzhak Perlman

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DanielB said
By "interesting", all I meant was that it is not one of the usual wedding cliches. It is a beautiful song.I first heard it a few decades ago, on Neil Hellman's "Oktober County" album, but the Retaw Boyce version is my current favorite as well. Retaw Boyce's version is what got me started experimenting with chords on violin.
For the actual wedding, are you planning on doing the piece unaccompanied, or against Boyce's backing tracks? Those are some pretty nice backing tracks, and I could definitely see them as something to help make a very nice moment for a special day.
Hey Daniel, I hadn't considered using the backing tracks. Sounds interesting but I'm not sure how I'd work the logistics of it.

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FYI, I think I've figured out a good way to do the backing track logistics... a looper pedal.
Looking at the TV Electronic Ditto for the price and the Boss RC-3 for the features. With the RC-3 I could actually have backing tracks for several songs. It appears much easier to load backing tracks onto the RC-3 as well.
UPDATE: There's also the Digitech Jamman Solo XT that I just read about. It is about the same price as the RC-3 but looks like it might be even easier to use. It has an Aux audio input, a Micro SD Card slot, and software for managing tracks.

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Now me, I'd usually think lower tech. Like an mp3 player into whatever sort of sound system will be available at the event, or burn the backing tracks to a CD and use a CD player. LOL
"This young wine may have a lot of tannins now, but in 5 or 10 years it is going to be spectacular, despite the fact that right now it tastes like crude oil. You know this is how it is supposed to taste at this stage of development." ~ Itzhak Perlman
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