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Frustration - A GOOD Thing!
Okay... I'm choking a little saying this.
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THIS usually feels like a good analogy of my life (in general) - but I see it can also apply to my fiddle learning, playing & creating music. 

 Frustration, stress, & worry don't exactly help me focus, but CAN be a powerful incentive for me to change - except, I'm not usually thrilled about it.  So, I do enjoy being reminded that things aren't always what they first seem, and splendid gifts can come in horrible packaging. 

...Alligator Stew, anyone?    

 

 

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PBS Antiques Roadshow Appraisal video: Jean Laurent Clément Violin with Alligator Case - pretty snappy!  😏

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So, the "needing persuasion" that Tim Harford talks about at the end of the video... sheer willpower hasn't worked this past year - guilt, yeah, but "Just do it!" 😳 NEVER works for me. 

HATE I've been choosing 'the easy road' because I'm feeling exhausted.  Convinced myself it's great I'm playing music I get excited about, but it's things I can easily focus on (melody, rhythm, intonation, bowing)... without really thinking too much. 

At the opposite end - there's my guilt trips, mostly because I've gotten impatient with myself not feeling up to working on aspects of music that take more effort & concentration.  I'm working to resolve things outside of music, things that drain my energy & resolve, but I've had to figure a way to convince myself that I have no other choice but to dig in... grin and bear it, or choose to see (what I want to work on) in a different light.  It's ended up being a little of both. 

Normally, if something in music has me frustrated (maybe intimidated, or overwhelmed) I'd break it down into smaller parts to tackle - but 'what' to tackle, when faced with many parts/options, can lead me into the 'choose easy vs hard' trap!  So, instead of individual 'parts' - I looked for what the things I've been avoiding lately (like playing variations, backing, improvised parts of songs) have most in common.  It's IMPROVISATION, for me.  Back to the 'needing persuasion' - I had to keep it very simple for right now, so I chose RESTRICTION.  In otherwords, I decided to restrict myself to ONLY playing some aspect of IMPROVISATION on my fiddle - nomatter what pieces I choose to practice. 

Improvisation, IMPROVISATION, IMPROVISATION (chanting this as I type). 🤭

 

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I only started to do this 'improvising everything' a couple days ago... today I was better at not falling back into my regular kind of practice.  Hope I can keep it up - want to make it feel like the 'natural' thing to do everyday (all the Fiddle Hell Workshops are coming in handy now).  Btw, I really am breaking 'improvisation' down into different types in my practice, but found it helps to keep my mind calm by focusing on ONE word - hypnotizing myself!  

 

How are YOU dealing with YOUR fiddling frustrations?

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