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What made you realize you were actually aging with everyone else?
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For years I would say this brother is getting old, this sister is getting old (I am one if the youngest of a large family), wow, she has aged, my nepephew is growing up. 

In my mind, however, I never thought of myself as aging with them, everyone else was aging, but, I was still the same.

There was one thing that happened that really made me think, “Da#$!, I am getting old, TOO!”

When we still used over-the-air FM radio, we used to listen to an oldies station that played late 50’s and 60’s. It was mostly 60’s. For a time we had a vehicle with a beautiful 5 disc cd player, stopped listening to the radio. Gave that vehicle to my son (we keep them for a long long time and are not worth much in a trade). New vehicle did not have the 5 disc cd player. Back to the radio.

I started listening to my favorite and only oldies station. Wow! My music was too old to be on thag station. It was moved to their really old oldies sister AM statiom that played BIG BAND. Huh? Rock is mixed with big band? At that moment, I realized I was not immune to aging, but they could not take away that I did not feel like I was. Since we keep cars for a long time, It was pretty bad since I love music. Had to keep swapping CD’s in and out when my husband was driving and pick one and listen to it over and over until I got to where I was going when I was driving (I did not need a law to tell me not to multitax when driving). I started mixing my own from my cd’s and squeezed as many songs onto a disc as would fit.

Next car we got had satellite radio. We now listen to satellite 60’s. Ah, sweet days of youth!

When did it hit you and what did it?

They call me, “Mellow Cello” 

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I was watching a kids' TV show a few years ago and they brought out a 45 record and said "this is what your grandparents used to listen to music on."

We occasionally perform uke gigs at sheltered accommodation and we perform numbers from the 30s (jazz standards and western swing) to the 80s. The audience told us we were great, whereas "the previous lot did nothing but Vera Lynn numbers, and we were all born after the war" indeed, making them younger than most of the Rolling Stones, and in fact 3/4 of ABBA are in their seventies now.

I was eavesdropping a guy in Starbucks a few months back - he was complaining that he turned on the radio and it was pensioners' hour, and they were playing stuff that would  be too bland for an elevator, whereas he was a pensioner and was listening to Black Sabbath in 1970 which was nearly 50 years ago.

Incidentally, the 30th January was the 50th anniversary of the Beatles' farewell gig on the rooftop of their Apple office in Savile Row. On that day I had a lesson with my teacher, Sheila, who plays viola for the Bootleg Beatles, and they had had a 30th anniversary rooftop gig there, but were unable to repeat it.

I always wanted to be a juvenile delinquent but my parents wouldn't let me.

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I suppose it was either when I started receiving AARP (may not be an international organization..sorry) mail or when new hires at work were my kids age.

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I remember being in my 40s and looking at the birth dates of players on a college basketball team.  They were all born after the date that I graduated college.

I now have “Irish Alzheimer’s”—I only remember the grudges.

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I consider any plane that I design a success if it rises high enough to crash.  —RA Heinlein

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Or if you're a man, the first time you sit on a testicle.

It is not as hilarious as the movies make it out to be!

I always wanted to be a juvenile delinquent but my parents wouldn't let me.

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GregW said
I suppose it was either when I started receiving AARP (may not be an international organization..sorry) mail or when new hires at work were my kids age.  

I started receiving AARP mail when I was 22, about 8 months after receiving my bachelor's degree. It was unsettling.surprised

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When you are running around the house looking for your glasses, and you're wearing them! confused

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MoonShadows said
When you are running around the house looking for your glasses, and you're wearing them! confused  

Yup..lol..been there

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@GregW I started receiving AARP when I turned 30. I brushed it off as senility from AARP’s end!

@MoonShadows I have done that, but if that was a sign of old age, I reached that point around 27. My daughter told me I was wearing them. I have done that but if that was a sign of old age,I reached that point around 27. My daughter told me I was wearing them. Oh, wow, does that make me the oldest person alive?

@Irv ND?

They call me, “Mellow Cello” 

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I vaguely remember going to the grocery store and requesting a 5% senior discount when I was 30 years old.  Practice continues.

Research is what I’m doing when I don’t know what I’m doing.  —Werner von Braun

I consider any plane that I design a success if it rises high enough to crash.  —RA Heinlein

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Jim

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@MoonShadows I will have to stay away from auctions. 

They call me, “Mellow Cello” 

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Funny, unfortunately also true.

However, there is so much we can do to make old age as good or better than our previous life.
New hobbies, new healthier habits, friends, life choices.
I for one, at 55, am as healthy or healthier than I ever was.

I keep questioning my memory but when I really think about it I never had a great memory for names and such, but my memory for music has always been great.

"The richest person is not the one who has the most,
but the one who needs the least."

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I agree Fiddlerman! I don't mind getting older because life just keeps getting better!

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