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Hello, I am 49 and still learning the basics. If I can learn anyone can.
Thanks to this site and a handful of lessons I can play a lot of nice songs that are not that bad. I love playing.
I'd would be a very rich person if I got paid for all the practice. I practice and play often... a lot.... as much as I can...
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Never too old to learn. I don't know where people get that idea. You may be a little old to try for "child prodigy", but as long as you're ok with that, you should be fine. LOL
"This young wine may have a lot of tannins now, but in 5 or 10 years it is going to be spectacular, despite the fact that right now it tastes like crude oil. You know this is how it is supposed to taste at this stage of development." ~ Itzhak Perlman

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Kind of interesting that people often seem to wonder about if they are too old to start learning an instrument.. But I've been thinking maybe folks would be better off wondering if they are too old to quit.
I mean, doesn't there come a point where you can look at your age and your likely life expectancy and think... "Aw, what the heck. I may as well just stick with it."
"This young wine may have a lot of tannins now, but in 5 or 10 years it is going to be spectacular, despite the fact that right now it tastes like crude oil. You know this is how it is supposed to taste at this stage of development." ~ Itzhak Perlman

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Thanks so much to you all for the positive comments and encouragement!
I'm going to allay all the fears and tackle this head-on!
I'll keep you upto date on progress.
I'm in Ireland btw.
@DanielB: Totally agree with what you're saying, but I'll avoid looking at the likely life expectancy... puts the hairs up on the back of my neck!!
Thanks again,
Tim

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Your chronological age has nothing to do with your ability to learn. Your physiological age and certain physical disabilities might deter your efforts though. I just crossed the 50 Yard line and have been here (and gone) for about 2 1/2 years give or take. I am just now beginning to learn how to bow smoothly and be less choppy. I can read notes and identify with 82% surety I am hitting somewhere near where I need to be. The tone deaf dog loves my playing.
Is it my goal in life to take over for Itzhak? Is it my plan to preform solo for a philharmonic using one of several donated Strads? Absolutely not. I have a very nice set of violins I have collected. I enjoy my little ditties and partial pieces I can play. I love struggling adding a trill, slide or double stop to something I can actually grind through. To me, it is just purely the love of the instrument. Simply enjoying something you are doing at whatever skill level your abilities place you at. However much time you have to devote to this pastime, hobby or passion is up to you. Certainly, by not trying, you may be doing yourself an injustice. At 55, you could say, I've been playing this blasted piece for 5 years and finally, it sounds mostly right
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At age 55 you could say, I'm too old to start learning something new.
I should have started 5 years ago.
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50 used to be considered kinda old, I guess. But these days, with advances in medicine and educational opportunities, I have talked to quite a few people now that think of it as just a good age for "re-tooling" to prepare for your next career. It is not as old as it used to be. Neither is 70, for that matter, or any age, really.
"Retirement" used to be a carrot that was dangled at the 65 yr old line of life. But having seen older friends who retired and died a very few years later, and the ones that died of heart attacks in their "big push" the last couple of years before retirement, I decided a few years ago that I can maybe live better without ever going after that particular carrot. Most of the friends who are older than myself who are in good shape and good health are still working, though many of them took a change in lifestyle or career direction.
When I hit 50 a few years ago (I'm 53 now), I gave such matters quite a bit of thought. And I'll admit, some worry. But deciding I wasn't ready to wrap things up and think of life as done, I started thinking about what I'd like to do, what my half a century had given me in life experiences that I could build on, and for part of my 51st birthday, I started looking at violins. I'd always wanted to try the instrument, one hears how hard it is and how expensive, how much work to learn and etc. I let that sort of talk chase me off when I was younger. But as an adult, I know better than to be chased off by just talk when I can find out for myself and see what *I* can do.
So one can worry about being "too old" or just decide it is time to re-tool and gain the skills and education you'll need for "round 2".
I do think small children have some learning advantages. But so do adults. Adults are often more self-disciplined, have learned what can be accomplished with some work and sticking to something rather than becoming discouraged when things will take some time. Life experiences can give us a better long-term perspective, and at least a lot of us have learned to be better at budgeting our time than when we were kids.
Besides, it is never too late to have a happy childhood. This time you can hold out for the new bike, a pony AND violin lessons. LOL
"This young wine may have a lot of tannins now, but in 5 or 10 years it is going to be spectacular, despite the fact that right now it tastes like crude oil. You know this is how it is supposed to taste at this stage of development." ~ Itzhak Perlman

Hi, Tim, and Welcome!
No, You're definitelly not too old to do anything, unless the age is an excuse or a physical opstacle (which as i've understood is not your case).
I was basically convinced by the others that it's too late to learn to play violin at 10... then at 15.... and especially at 28 when i actually started
So just grab a fiddle and have fun. The one who have to decide - is You.
Uzi said
I wish I was 50 again.
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