Congrats on the new stuff, @Heinrich 

As it turns out, I just bought a Wolf forte secondo shoulder rest from Fiddlershop yesterday. There are so many ways it can be adjusted once you've chosen the chinrest that works best for you.

Since I like to hold my violin more to the front than to the left side, this is how I've twisted and attached the Wolf forte secondo:
  

The low, shoulder side is so low that I can feel the violin on my collar bone when I lift the scroll a bit but love the security of having the Wolf there for me when I need it. I should mention one negative of having the SR so low on that one side... there are some metal attachment bits that get precariously close to the back of my violin. Maybe I'll just wrap the offending part in some scrap leather...

... or maybe I'll grow up one day and start using a shoulder rest with less extreme twisting 🙂

Just a blundering beginner here, having fun with my equipment. That said, I took one look at that pic I posted of my Wolf setup and immediately screwed the high side down to something less dramatic (and more stable 🙂 So I'm looking to learn from your solution too.

I'm glad to hear that the bow "fits" at least.

I think the general wisdom goes that one should find a comfortable chinrest first and then get a shoulder rest that works. 

Am I correct that you're looking for a high chinrest? If yes, you can check out the SAS height adjustable at Fiddlershop or look up the "wavechinrest".

Re: shoulder rests, I mentioned above that I had just switched from the Wolf to the  Bonmusica (which I used for the first 6 months of my violin adventure.) The Bonmusica is as a grippy and bendable a shoulder rest as you can get. It even hooks over your shoulder. The down side is mainly that there's a lot of hardware involved (the price of stability and adjustability.)

This is how I had it adjusted:
 

Why did I switch? I did want to try something less of a contraption (although the fit was great.) The trigger was that I stripped a double threaded screw and have a temporary fix (see the white plastic dowel on the shoulder-side foot) until I can locate a replacement.