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A lot of them men opted to stay on the boat to help get the women and children into the lifeboats, and even if they had tried to get into the lifeboats they probably wouldn't have been allowed to get in. In those circumstances I'd probably prefer to go out playing rather than panic. It may have soothed the musicians as much (or even more than) the passengers.